A MAN wants a divorce after claiming that his 37-year-old wife is sexually frigid and that they had sex less than 20 times in 10 years of marriage, reported China Press.
The man, who declined to be named, said they had sex for the first time two years after their marriage.
“She always finds an excuse to reject me. I did consider her feelings in the beginning.
“But now, I need sex so I am having an affair,” he said, adding that the couple had been sleeping in separate rooms for the last three years.
He promised to take care of her and their three children aged between 21 months and seven years after the divorce.
However, the wife, who held a press conference at Federal Territory Gerakan in Kuala Lumpur on Sunday, claimed the man wanted a divorce in order to marry his Chinese national girlfriend, whom he met online two years ago.
The woman, who is a sales coordinator, said she found out about her husband’s affair after giving birth to her youngest son.
“He was having an affair with a local woman then. But I chose to forgive him after he terminated the relationship with the woman,” she said, adding that he then had an affair with the Chinese national.
She said she was willing to divorce him on condition that he continued to pay the children’s education fees and living expenses as well as the house and car loans.
London, June 6 (ANI): Ryan Giggs, following his fall-out from his ill-fated gagging order, has been accused of an eight-year affair with his brother’s wife, Natasha, even when he was seeing ‘Big Brother’ housemate Imogen Thomas.
The Manchester United ‘squeaky clean’ footballer, formerly regarded as the model professional and committed family man, found his reputation further tainted when it came into limelight that he slept with Natasha the day after his eight-year-old daughter was born and again the day after the arrival of his four-year-old son.
The affair was alleged to have continued until April 9.
According to a Sunday newspaper, Gigg had been cheating on his wife Stacey with Natasha before she began dating his younger brother Rhodri, reports the Daily Mail.
According to Natasha, it was Giggs’s folly in taking out his notorious injunction over an alleged fling with Imogen, which spurred her to break her silence.
“When I found out he was cheating with Imogen too, I was really hurt,” she told the News of the World through a ‘friend’.
“I know that sounds really strange, but he wasn’t just cheating on Stacey, he was cheating on me too. Our relationship was just about sex to him,” she added. (ANI)
NEW YORK – An Egyptian man was charged on Monday with sexually assaulting a hotel maid at a luxury New York City hotel, police said.
Mahmoud Abdel-Salam Omar, 74, is accused of assaulting the maid when she delivered tissues that had been requested to room 1027 about 6 p.m. (next day 6am local time) on Sunday at the Pierre Hotel on Manhattan’s Upper East Side, police said.
An assault was reported to police on Monday morning. Omar, of Alexandria, Egypt, was arrested and charged with sexual abuse, unlawful imprisonment, forcible touching and harassment.
The arrest comes two weeks after former IMF chief Dominique Strauss-Kahn was charged with trying to rape a hotel maid at another luxury Manhattan hotel.
Strauss-Kahn, now under house arrest in multimillion dollar New York townhouse, has denied charges of a criminal sexual act, attempted rape, sexual abuse, unlawful imprisonment and forcible touching.
If convicted, Strauss-Kahn, who resigned as managing director of the International Monetary Fund after his arrest, faces up to 25 years in prison. He is due to appear in court again on June 6.
AFTER darkness falls, what goes on behind closed doors at the many chalets around Singapore may shock parents.
With the curtains of the chalet unit drawn, out comes the cocktail of alcohol and illegal drugs to be shared among10 or so teenagers, including girls as young as 14.
Once they are high, they cast their inhibitions and clothes aside, and start getting intimate, progressing from French kissing to heavy petting to sexual intercourse.
Gang violence in Singapore
Some of the girls are willing partners, some are too wasted to be aware of what’s happening and sometimes, those who resist end up getting raped.
When morning comes, they pack their bags and check out of their unit. The guys may go through the same routine a few months later with new girls, or “fresh meat” as they are called.
Such chalet stays, organised by some members of gangs in Singapore, are getting more common, several former gang members told The New Paper.
An 18-year-old former gangster, who gave his name as John, said: “We would tell our parents that we were going for a barbecue, but we didn’t even take any charcoal or chicken wings with us.”
John, who left the gang last year after he was arrested for theft, said he had attended such sex-and-drug orgies twice, but claimed he didn’t take part.
Former gangster shares what he witnessed at chalet stays organised by gang members.
‘High’ and violent
“I don’t do drugs, so I would go home when the rest got too ‘high’ and became violent or started taking their clothes off,” he said.
He said most of the gang members at these parties were in their teens.
“It was too much for me to see them having sex at the same time in the same room.
“They simply didn’t care who was watching when they became ‘mabuk’ (drunk in Malay).”
Speaking in a mixture of Mandarin and Hokkien, John described the girls who take part in the parties.
“We call some of them ‘lor kway’ (Hokkien for streetwalker) and some of them ‘ah dai’ (fools)
“Lor kway” are girls who are considered to have loose morals, he said, while “ah dai” refers to newbies who attend the chalet parties with no inkling that drugs and sex are involved.
Sometimes, the revellers have no recollection of the night before as they were under the influence of drugs such as ketamine and “ice”.
The parties would usually have more males than females, said former gangsters.
Such situations occasionally lead to several men sharing one woman and can even result in gang rape.
A 28-year-old former gang member , who wanted to be known as Peter, said: “The victim is usually a gang member’s girlfriend.
“After everyone gets high, the boyfriend offers her to the rest of the guys.”
Peter, who is a social worker now, said he has not seen such a gang rape before, but he has heard of four or five such incidents among his former circle of friends.
“It is not just happening in chalets…such activities can also take place in pub shophouses or in the homes of the gang members,” he added.
John pointed out that not all chalet outings organised by his gangster friends involved sex and drugs.
The “healthier” outings are usually organised by a birthday boy and the number of people attending, which could be as many as 50, depends on his influence in the gang, said John.
At such outings, underage drinking, gambling and even fighting are par for the course, he added.
Social workers contacted by The New Paper said they have counselled teens who have had sex in chalets as part of their gang activities.
They said that those involved may not necessarily come from broken or low-income families, a common stereotype in the past.
But there’s a common thread – these teens usually suffer from an emotional void at home.
Miss Faith Png, 39, a social worker with YouthReach, said: “Some parents give too little affection and neglect their children because they are busy, while others give too much attention because they are authoritative.
“Both will drive their children to seek freedom and love outside of the family and sometimes, the children befriend gangsters.”
Mr Alfred Tan, 50, the executive director of Singapore Children’s Society, said: “The media’s portrayal of casual sex, and easy access to pornography have caused our youth to become more promiscuous than in the past.
“This is a worrying trend as there may be peer pressure to have sex.
“Instead of being harsh to their children, parents should get to know their friends.”
Mr Jeffrey Mak, 45, a social worker with The Silver Lining Community Services, said: “There is usually a ring leader in such illegal gang activities.
“The rest are just the ‘kah kia’ (sidekicks) and not real gangsters.
“If we give them a listening ear and a second chance in life, many of them can become successful as adults.”
In Singapore, it is illegal to have sex with children under the age of 16.
If the victims are between 12 and 14 years old, it is considered statutory rape and offenders can be jailed upto 20 years and fined or caned.
If the victim is above 14 but below 16, offenders can be jailed up to five years and fined $10,000 for carnal connection.
The maximum penalty for rape is 20 years’ jail with possible caning.
Security stepped up at chalets during holidays
CHALET operators here said they have not come across sex-and-drug parties on their premises.
Mr Vikas Gupta, 22, manager of Goldkist Beach Resort at East Coast Park, said: “To the best of our knowledge,we have not come across any such incident so far.”
Mr Steven Tang, director of Costa Sands Resort, which has two outlets in Pasir Ris and one in Sentosa, said his management has also not come across such parties.
He added: “It has always been our practice to step up our security presence during our peak periods, such as the June school holidays, to deal with the additional visitors.”
Mr Vikas also said the frequency of security patrols in his resort will increase by 50 per cent during peak periods.
Crimes in resorts go back several years.
In a 2000 case, 13 young people, including a 12-year-old girl, were arrested at a Pasir Ris chalet for possessing six sachets of ketamine anda packet of cannabis.
Last November, four youths were arrested at Costa Sands Resort in Pasir Ris after two of them were found to have choppers.
The police state on their website that a key concern is combating youth crime.
While the total number of youth arrested for crimes dropped slightly from 4,271 in 2009 to 4,176 last year, the number of those nabbed for rioting rose from 468 in 2009 to 531 last year.
“These students have gone wild. We have caught them kissing at back lanes. They have no shame even if someone watches them.
“They caress, kiss and even indulge in oral sex in the semi-lit alleys,” said a trader, 45, who requested anonymity.
State Education, Youth and Sport committee chairman Datuk Gan Tian Loo expressed his disappointment.
“I am startled over these students and their morally despicable activities,” he told The Star yesterday.
Gan said he had just embarked on a campaign to eliminate school gangs when notified about the students’ behaviour and would now also have to focus on moral behaviour.
“I am supposed to meet a group of students with disciplinary problems at a secondary school (today) to delve on matters relating to gangsterism but it appears I have to start my inaugural campaign at Gajah Berang schools.”
The Star visited the area at 5.30am and discovered a teenage girl in school uniform fondling and kissing her peer at the back lane of a fast food outlet.
At another part of the alley, 10 students including schoolgirls were smoking even after they were aware of the media’s presence in the area.
The principal of one of the schools near the alley encouraged the media to highlight the students’ behaviour in the hope that police would intensify patrols in the area.
“We will investigate the traders’ claims and step up our patrols. We have to nip this in the bud,” he said.
Documents showed that “Cheng Li’s engaged in an obscene performance in the nude, attracting many onlookers, creating chaos at the scene”, establishing that he has created a public disturbance.
Netizens engaged in intense discussion with regards to whether this was art or obscene.
It can be seen that while a naked Cheng Li and a female engaged in sexual performance, there were many people wearing serious expressions observing or taking photographs around them.
Cheng Li’s lawyer Wang Zhenyu told this reporter that Cheng Li told him after the incident that there were two purposes for this performance art:
1) To satirize the current situation where art has been overly commercially packaged, and
2) call for people to not demonize normal sexual behavior or think of it as ugly. What more, this exhibition only invited a specific range/field of artists and was not open to the public.
Like wtf???? Is this really considered art?
A leaked video clip of two Chinese students allegedly having sex in a classroom has stirred controversy online.
The couple are reported to be students from the Hebei Polytechnic College of Light Industry, who decided to have an intimate lunch-hour.
But unbeknownst to them, a high-definition hidden camera was secretly recording their romp in the lecture theatre.
The 15-minute clip was recorded last year, but was leaked online only recently, reported Chinasmack.
In Singapore, students have also been caught making out in public places, some of them underaged and still in uniform.